What is yours will find you
What Is Yours Will Find You
The Next Brave Thing | Episode 95
In this episode of The Next Brave Thing, I opened up about a truth that’s been unfolding in my own life lately: what is truly meant for you will find you. Not through hustle or control—but through surrender, alignment, and trust.
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Letting Go of Control
I’ll be the first to admit, I’ve spent years trying to manage, plan, and push outcomes into place. But the older I get, and the more I tune into what’s really happening beneath the surface, the more I see how control is often just fear wearing a mask. When I let go—even just a little—I create space for the right things to show up in ways I never could’ve orchestrated on my own.
Learning to Surrender
Surrender has become a theme in my life. Not the kind that feels passive or helpless, but the kind that requires deep trust. Trust in timing. Trust in myself. Trust in something greater. When I surrender, I don’t stop showing up—I just stop trying to force what isn’t ready or isn’t meant for me.
Finding Alignment
Over the past few years, I’ve been realigning. With my values, my voice, and the kind of life I want to live. That alignment has shifted everything. When I’m living in integrity, when I’m saying yes to what feels true, things begin to flow. Not easily, necessarily—but honestly. And that’s where the magic happens.
Trusting the Timing
One of the hardest parts? Trusting the timing. I talk about this in the episode because I’ve felt the frustration of delay. But I’ve also seen how those pauses were necessary. They shaped me. They prepared me. And they kept me grounded so I’d be ready when the right thing finally did arrive.
Creating Inner Stillness
Lately, I’ve been leaning into practices that help me quiet the noise—breathwork, journaling, morning walks. These moments of stillness help me stay connected to my inner compass, especially when everything around me feels uncertain. It’s in that quiet space that I hear the whispers that guide me forward.
A Final Reminder
If you’re in a season of waiting, or wondering if the thing you long for will ever show up—I want to leave you with this: what is yours will find you. You don’t have to chase it down. You don’t have to earn it. You just have to stay close to yourself, keep doing the work, and be open to receiving it when it comes.
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